The dynamics of each parent-to-child relationship may differ completely. There are always some universal themes involved, such as wanting the best in life for your child. It is also generally important to lead the way to your kids, whether this is through your words or your actions. You have your own ideas in life, and chances are you want your children to take up similar ideals. Here are some specific ways in which you can be a good role model to your children.
Be Transparent
No one is a perfect person, and as tough as it is to swallow, your child likely will not be as well. This is why it is important to show your child the real you and explain to them mistakes you may have made in the past.
This will show them that everyone is capable of messing up, but the ultimate key to success is how you respond to your mistakes. It will also help lead the example of what to do and what not to do.
Listen To Your Kids
One mistake that parents may often make is that they will attempt to be a good role model, but only in a way that is irrelevant to the needs of the child. This is why it is important to listen to the situations and the problems that your child faces acting as a role model according to what they need to witness. This also will show that you are genuinely there to help them and that no problem should be perceived as too much to handle.
Be Careful in How You Express Your Emotions
Role models are typically thought of as people who are stoic and have a great ability to control their emotions. While some emotions are certainly necessary, you need to be calculated in how you express these in front of your child.
Simply put, the best course of action here is to be yourself and show your natural emotions, and make sure not to overdo it by yelling at them when disciplining them. Otherwise, it will come off to your child as if you are allowing your personal needs and frustrations as coming before your willingness to teach them and help them grow, which is not something that a role model does.